They say that the first impression of a person is important, but is it infallible? That's what one girl, Gabby, tries to answer, who shares relationship advice with her TikTok followers.
In fact, in her video, she revealed the three tests she puts her prospective partners through on a first date. If they "pass" them, then - in her opinion - they are worthy and she gives them the "green light", if not then they probably don't see her again.
The three "tests"
So Gabby does some things on the first date that the men she has dated don't realize, however at the end of the night she has drawn her conclusions.
The woman, who has over 18,000 followers on TikTok, said her first goal is to see if the man offers to pay on the first date.
"If he tells you to pay half and half it's stupid. The guy should pay the full amount of the bill on the first date," she said."
Another little "test" she revealed was to see if her dates cared about her "safety".
[BR][BR]She cited an example when she booked an Uber to return home after going out with a man at a bar in Miami, Florida.
Before the Uber arrived he politely said he would wait with her until she arrived, but Gabby refused.. She may have sounded cool, but she was secretly testing the man, who she said disappointed her after he ultimately didn't insist on staying with her and didn't accompany her.
"If you don't care about my safety, you're done. This man failed my protection test and never saw me again. Men, you need to walk her to her car, to her Uber, anywhere to make sure she gets home safely," she stresses in her video.
The third and final test is that when men wear jackets, she will never fail to say she's cold. She does this to see if the gentleman will give her his coat to keep warm.
"I want to see if you care about what I say and make sure I don't get cold," she says. The video has already garnered more than 151,000 views and many users agree with Gabby's tests.
One girl commented on the post: "Always pay and share an Uber to make sure they get home safe... men don't get it."
Another woman said: "I totally agree. I had a similar situation and never spoke to the guy again."
A Tik Tok user added: "Normally I don't agree with "tests" because all you have to do on a date is be honest...but these are common sense things to keep an eye on the lady you're out with."
Source: gazzetta.gr
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